I'm weary....

tears to dream
only to wake to tears.
again and again
sometimes i feel my heart growing stronger
but those times are fleeting and followed by stronger times of pain and hurt
ive been hurt by those ive known for so long i thought they couldnt hurt me but they did and harder and so unexpected
ive been hurt in short times by people whose words seemed so real that it almost seemed that they knew what i was feeling directly inside only to realize that those words were being used for some reason or another mostly to use me or my body for their pleasures
is trust something bought by fools cause right now i feel a fool i dont feel i can trust anyone fully
everyone hurts you at some point
even your family, your closest friends, strangers they are all hurt you and even yourself
i hurt myself to stop the pain inflicted by others
im tired of hurting, im tired of being used for the nothing i even have
just once i want to be loved or even cared for wholly, just for me because of me maybe thats just a fleeting thought too
maybe i dont deserve it who knows these things, but i am tired.
almost too tired.

i hate when its right in.....

....right in front of your face and you don't realize it, i just have to let go of the things that are bringing me down and set them free. im not attached to them by blood. i hold my friendships and relationships very dear but i realize when im on the only one trying to holding this pairing together something has to sacrifice and it wont be me.

I'm GROWN....

....I must have my own place to live and be free from under the thumb of my family. Time to grow up. I would like to spend time with my mother but with her there is no talking about anything besides money and how much most she wants and how much she wants me to give her. One problem with that. I DONT HAVE ANY MONEY!!!! Not enough to help her. i cant even afford to get my tooth pulled. I really don't think she cares. It honestly doesn't seem she cares much about 'me at all. I just need distance. When I have people that haven't known me my whole life treating me better than my Mother somethings need to change. I'm going to do with my life what i want to do. I'm going to make a plan and stick to it. I've been working hard to love myself and put my priorities in order and people who don't act like they love or want the best for me or treat me like their personal punching bag are out for me. unless you can love me or treat me as i deserve to be treated can earn back my favor. but with actions not words....

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Doormat

i am gonna face it. im a doormat i spend most of my time doing shit for ppl i think care about me and get nothing in return. wait i take that back i get lots of heartache and resentment. and these assholes think im so satisfied by just getting to be around them. how can so many men be such emotional retards. i know im not perfect but i love with my whole heart and if i care for you theres nothing i wouldnt do for you. so why am i always left waiting for something better to come along. if you could only see that what i could offer u would be all you would ever need. then u would never want for anything else. of course i would like to chalk this up to their loss. but i cant help what my heart wants and when my heart yearns for someone its the equivalent of a mack truck with no brakes, its gonna keep on coming with no stopping. oh well i guess ill suffer once more. its become a way of life. call me the queen of all that is unrequited.

UBER STRESS

I spend so much time trying to help other ppl out but I don't see one person trying to help me out. I think ppl throw the word friendship around like they throw the word love around. Actions speak louder than words and so far I see no real actions from the ppl I do the most for. I think its time I start letting people see what I'm like when I let then fend for themselves....when I start saying no sorry...I can't! surprise surprise I have that ability. I think doormat-me has to go away. Cause I really feel like the person I do the most for thinks I'm his door mat covered up by saying he's always there for me. But I have yet to see him do anything of consequence to help me. The little things he does here n there are small to nil. I like to keep my word but I think my word is gonna have to be NO. I'm stressing myself out for others but doing nothing to help myself. Time for a change!

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